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There are many group discussion tips that one needs to gather. Though a personal experience is the best you can relate to. Gathering information of body language principles, dressing style and usage of words can be done by noticing peers or participating on the podium level. Make it a habit to speak publicly and take part in extempore speeches and on the stage activities. This will expose you well to stand in front of the crowd and hold fort. Body language is something which people rarely talk about but expressions speak the most. Many times we can gauge by a smile or a frown about the words that are not expressed by the tongue.
If you always had a very formal look and a prim and proper image then there is a need to sober down. Too much of high headed assertiveness and you will end up making people avoid you. At the same time, prior to a group discussion you can be friendly with others but judge them as acquaintances. This kind of decorum is required for being a professional. Do not divulge personal details and be general in your opinion. Do not brag about your achievements and be to the point when questions are asked.
It is true that eyes are mirror of the soul. The facts about negative emotions, confusion, not understanding, lying, distracted, non interest and anger is very well expressed with eyes. If you look away in airy fairy manner it clearly suggests you are not comprehending the topic of group discussion. If you are looking around desperately with shifty eyes it also indicates you are looking for help and cues to speak something. If you feel alienated which you have made obvious by taking the corner most seat, then you have to express well with clear eye contact with the moderator as well as the other participants. Eye brows need to be relaxed, quizzical looks and raised eye brows are dramatic and can be interpreted in the wrong manner.
The biggest problem is what to do with your hands and toes. Drumming the hand rest or picking for treasures on the chair is disgusting. This clearly indicates a restless attitude and unable to concentrate feeling. Toes if pointed to the ground indicate anxiety. If you are habitual of playing an imaginary flute with your fingers or holding your fists tight these are well noticed by the other observers in the jury. Practice a formal smile and please be natural.
Wear comfortable clothes and be yourself. If the interiors are not air conditioned, sweating can be uncomfortable and also unsightly. Wear a good pair of shoes and socks. If it is a rainy day and your dress is smudged, be natural as the interviewee definitely understands your peril. Hence choose a drip easy garment and choose open sandals. Arrange your file well and avoid all accidents.
Do not cross your arms or your legs. Stop tap dancing or pulling your cheek. Another gesture is doodling with your pen or sticking it constantly all over your face especially the chin and cheek. These are regarded as truly unprofessional and noticed by peers. Shoulders should be square and drooping indicates low self esteem or unsure feeling. There are many people who are highly intellectual
& good at soft skills, but fail to make it big only due to their unwillingness to change and learn the right norms in body language. Be natural and sincere is the final key to success.
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